Sunday, March 1, 2009

Snail Mail 2/23/2009

Hello once again! I guess the good news for this week is that we have two investigators with baptismal dates – Julia and her husband Alvero. The bad news is that we found out they aren’t married, so we need to teach them about that. Things are going well though. It was so funny – Alvero kept asking if the baptism water would be warm or cold; he seemed really concerned about it. Lol

I gave one of our RCs (recent converts) a blessing this week. E. S. did the anointing, then I did the blessing in Spanish. I was nervous, but I felt that extra power helping me through it.

On Thursday nights we usually go visit some RCs who E.S. baptized. They are an older couple, and the husband, OJ, comes to our area to bowl in a bowling league. I might have mentioned them before – they took us out to dinner once. Anyway they are some of the nicest people I’ve ever met and very firm in their new faith. They talk a lot, are so funny, and are so loving. We usually talk to Marilyn while OJ bowls. One night at the bowling alley we met this guy (a friend of OJ’s) and he was like “My wife’s Mormon” so he invited us to his small chicken fast food place and fed us a huge free lunch one day.

Yesterday was ward conference, so the choir finally sang the two songs we’ve been practicing forever. Julia (hoolia en Espanol) even came to church finally. We went to a member’s house for dinner (the one we go to every Sunday) and their friend Erasmo was there again so we taught him the second lesson on the POS (plan of salvation). It was a good lesson.

I thought it was so sweet and was touched that Reesah remembered me. Thanks for sharing that Anna.

I told the president about my sensitive eyes and that my brother got headaches on his mission, but apparently he doesn’t care. I told him I’d take off my sunglasses while talking to people, but he still doesn’t want me (or anyone else) to wear them except for in the car.

It was so funny the other day – we were tracting on the edge of the mission, and while we were driving we saw elders from the Longbeach mission drive right past us going the other way b/c the street is the divider. They looked so confused – it was hilarious. Did I already tell this story?

Anyway when we tract it seems like almost everyone already goes to a church, but it’s not just one – there are all kinds of churches all over. So E.S. always likes to ask which one they go to. One of the common ones is the huge Catholic church in our area called “Our Lady Guadalupe” because they believe the Virgin Mary appeared to someone a long time ago down in South America in a city called Guadalupe. The building has a huge painting of the virgin on the front.

I’ve seen/heard more sirens and emergency vehicles here than my whole life it seems. (Sorry if that was random – just an interesting fact.)

I’ve shown the little family picture I have to some members and gotten lots of good comments but also some funny ones. One Senora said me and Ross look identical. She thought we were twins. She said Rachelle looked older than Stormie and that Jer looks Latino. Another said Mom and Dad look way too young to be the parents. She said all the males have Asian squinty eyes, which I guess is true when we smile, ha ha.

That’s crazy about the new computer – you should have done it long before I left, lol.

Sorry I didn’t get to a computer today – I’ll repent and be sure to email next week. Guess that’s about all I have to say. Love you all so much – can’t wait to hear from you.

For Mom:
The Fellowship of the Unashamed

I am part of the fellowship of the unashamed. The dye has been cast. I have stepped over the line; the decision has been made. I am a disciple of Jesus Christ. I won’t look back, let up, slow down, or be still. My past is redeemed, my present makes sense, my future is secure.

I am finished and done with: low-loving, small planning, smooth knees, colorless dreams, tamed visions, worldly talking, cheap giving, and dwarfed goals. I no longer need the pre-eminence, positions, promotions, plaudits, or popularity. I don’t have to be right, first, recognized, praised, regarded, or rewarded.

I now live by faith, lean on His presence, walk with patience, am uplifted by prayer, and labor with power. My face is set, my gait is fast, my goal is heaven. My road is narrow, my way is rough, my companions few, my guide is reliable, and my mission is clear.

I cannot be bought, compromised, detoured, lured away, divided, or delayed. I will not flinch in the face of sacrifice, hesitate in the presence of the adversary, negotiate at the table of the enemy, ponder at the pool of popularity, or meander in the maze of mediocrity.

I will not give up, shut up, or let up until I have paid up, stored up, and stayed up for the cause of Christ. I must go till he comes, give till I drop, preach till all know, and work till He stops me. And when he shall return for His own, He will have no problem recognizing me – my banner will be clear.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Email 2/17/2009

Hey everyone, how are all of you? I wasn’t able to write yesterday because the library was closed since it was Presidents day. Things are going well though. It wasn’t as rainy last week, except for Friday it poured cats and dogs. It’s kind of funny because the city isn’t really made for rain so the roads are covered in water and huge streams pour down the sides of the road. Huge puddles form and we even went to a parking lot with half the stalls under a lake so we had to park a little further away.

The last two p-days have been really fun because we’ve gone to the gym and played sports, so it’s been great exercise. Yesterday we played indoor soccer. It was great—lots of people came and not just missionaries. We went “squad knocking” this week with our roommates elders Koerper and Fuchs (pronounced Fooks). We knocked the same area and even switched companionships a few times.

Wednesday we got to go to the temple! It was an awesome experience. It’s the Newport Beach temple and it’s in our mission. It’s really beautiful and is made of pink stone. It’s one of the many small temples in the world. The story of how it came to be is pretty cool too. We sent the white stone we were going to use to China to get it finished or something and found out the city didn’t want them to use white stone. There happened to be a mistake made there that someone got pink stone on accident so we just traded with them. Anyway, it was a good session and then we went to a little meeting in the stake center nearby and President talked to us about goals and lots of other stuff. He had us write down goals for our mission and then said he’d give them back at the end of the mission. It was a good day, even though we had to wake up at 5:15 to get there on time lol. Afterwards, we went to lunch and then drove by the beach real quick. It was sunny and oh so beautiful. The ocean as usual looked so amazing.

Thursday we went knocking again for a while and then when we got back to the car we realized it was pretty flat. Fortunately there was a car place nearby that’s run by a Mormon family so we went there and filled up our spare so we could put it on. We had to wait till the next day to fix it because the SLC office closes at five, which is four our time and we don’t want to pay for anything ourselves if we don’t have to. Turns out we had a nail stuck in it. So I had a nice refresher course on how to change a tire.

Saturday and Sunday were great days for teaching. Our investigator Julia set a baptismal date for March 15th. She isn’t sure whether she will go through with it at the moment but with prayer I’m sure she will get an answer. Sunday was stake conference so all the Spanish wards in the mission pretty much met together and a member of the 70 came and spoke—but he had to have a translator. It was Bro. Nuenswander who also spoke while I was at the MTC. We had a “dinner” appointment at like 2 (Spanish people eat their big meal of the day in the early afternoon) at a member’s home. They also invited some non-member friends who we got to teach so we got 3 great new investigators. I told the Joseph Smith story (in Spanish) for the first time. I really hope these people get answers to their prayers—I have a good feeling about them.

This morning a member took us out to eat at a Thai place for lunch and I was grateful I don’t have to eat that food for two years. I’m too picky of an eater lol. Not that it was bad—just different.

I know I am truly blessed to be here and be a part of this great work. I’m loving it and will be sad when my companion goes home in a couple weeks, but then I’ll get another great companion I’m sure to help me grow and learn even more. I know I’m being blessed to learn Spanish at a quicker rate than I could learn it myself and that I am truly being watched over. Thanks for all your prayers and support.

Love, Elder Curtis

Email 2/9/2009

Hello from sunny California! I mean…rainy California. It’s rained like the past 5 days, which is like how much Elder Swenson has seen his whole mission, but I can deal with it.

Mexicans are funny. They have a super hard time pronouncing English words. Like most words don’t start with “S” so when they say an English word it comes out with an e sound in front. Especial, estart, esmart, etc. They had a super hard time with the “w” in elder Swenson’s name so he finally ordered a name-tag written like this: Suensón and they’re like “Oh, Swenson!” It’s funny. They have a really hard time with Curtis too. “Coortees.” I think they might be like Thai people because when they eat fruit, they like to have every kind of flavor on it. The fruit is sweet, then they put lemon juice on it (sour) then they put salt on it, and then chile powder (spicy and bitter). It’s pretty crazy.

There are tons of little shops on all sides of every main road and you wouldn’t believe how many donut shops there are. Like seriously, every other corner has one. Same thing with Liquor shops and Animal hospitals. I mean I’ve never even seen very many animal hospitals in my life and here they are all over the place—along with donuts at every turn lol. Motorcycles don’t seem to have any rules to follow because they always just do whatever they want—weaving in and out of cars to their pleasure. At stop lights they just go in between everyone right up to the front—it’s ridiculous. Instead of speed bumps there are dips all over. I’m mostly sure they are intentional because they are all over the place.

I finally cleaned the bathroom, and we bought a new shower curtain so I don’t have to breathe mold every day. It’s so much nicer. Tuesday I had my first Zone conference. It lasted most of the day and was pretty inspirational. We got new phones and had a clean car competition. We cleaned our car last Monday, but everyone else did too so we didn’t win anything. The meetings were good though and I played the piano for a musical number accompanying about 8 elders and sisters singing a Tongan hymn so that was cool.

The work is going pretty well though. We don’t have anyone that is super interested, but we still teach plenty. We also had lots of service activities to do this week. On Wednesday we helped someone move so we were hauling lots of stuff. That day we also taught a lady and her husband. She is Julia, but I’m not sure of his name. They told us once they know the Gospel’s true they’ll be baptized so that was cool. They’ve been meeting missionaries off and on for like a year though. On Wednesday and Thursday we got to do some more “service.” I put it in parenthesis because Elder Swenson said it was the best service he’s done his whole mission. We went to this house that this guy bought and wants to redo a lot of it so we went to tear down the old stuff. Demolition is actually pretty fun. Just grab a hammer and start whacking down cupboards and stuff. It was pretty crazy. We knocked down door frames, cupboards, walls, and we even took out a whole kitchen island thing that had like a stove and drawers etc. in it. We tore up carpet, tile, and all kinds of stuff.

We’re also teaching a less active named Hno. Castro who wants to be good—he just has so much in life distracting him from going to church etc.

We got to eat out two or three times this week because members just took us out instead of cooking for us. We went to a burger/chicken place one night and Chile’s another. We also ate at member’s houses two times this week. As usual they made fun of my poor Spanish comprehension. One lady even told a story to make me feel better about a time when she didn’t know what people were saying (in English) but I didn’t even understand the story—it was pretty pathetic, elder Swenson had to translate it for me. I feel like a little kid who doesn’t understand jokes so I just sit there and smile wondering what they’re laughing about, when half the time they’re laughing at me and I don’t know it. Some days are better though and I feel like I’m improving and understanding a lot. Some people are just easier to understand I guess.

Elder Stewart, who was in the threesome living with us, got transferred out to be with an incoming Elder (from another mission) so now out apartment is back down to four. It doesn’t make a huge difference though. They still stay up late, burn whatever they can find WHEREVER they are (and Rachelle thought I was a pyro, HA), play with their little air-soft guns (the word soft should not be applied. Those little plastic bb’s come out at a couple hundred miles per hour and sting if you get hit), and look like they are dead in the morning. My comp is good though—he always gets up on time. They’re good people though so I try not to judge them—they always make things interesting and fun.

Yesterday morning we stopped by a bunch of people’s houses, but they either weren’t there or had an excuse not to come to church. It was sad. I had to play the opening hymn in sacrament meeting again lol. Some missionaries in our district had a Baptism yesterday so we went to that (I played the piano).

We played indoor Frisbee at the church today with a bunch of other elders so that was a blast. The ASL elders were even there and one of them is actually deaf so that was fun.

Anyway, love you all. Hope your week goes well.

Elder Curtis

Snail Mail 2/2/2009

Hey everyone! I’m not going to lose my letter this time!

This week was pretty good. On Tuesday I went to the new missionary orientation because a new group of missionaries arrived, and I hadn’t been to those meetings yet. It took almost all day, but now I am oriented. We went to ward choir that night which was pretty funny – only one man was there besides us and one other missionary companionship, but there were a decent number of women. The only problem is that Hispanic people don’t sing very well – the choir director was pretty good though, but he was busy directing.

On Wednesday we went to a member home and did service. We removed a bunch of weeds, plants, fences, etc., and then they fed us pizza. It was really fun. I could have got burned if I hadn’t been wearing sunscreen. I’m glad winter ended early.

It was fun to have lots of dinner appointments the last two weeks. They cook really good food and it’s funny b/c the same people like to sign up to feed us every week.

The work is going pretty good. We don’t have any solid investigators, but we do have some, plus some less actives to visit – so we don’t have to knock doors too often. Mexican people are pretty funny. They are too nice to reject you half the time, even if they aren’t interested, so a lot of our appointments just fall through. We went knocking yesterday, but the first house let us in. They were really nice, and we taught a lesson so hopefully they turn out good.

On Friday we went to a blood drive and gave blood. I thought that was a pretty good thing to do as a missionary. It wasn’t too bad either. It was my third time, and I think I’m getting better. I even got a sweet t-shirt. It says “Warning: prone to sudden acts of heroism, let the hero in you fly – donate blood.” It’s pretty cool.

Yesterday was fast Sunday, and I fasted. In church, the pianist was late, so I had to play prelude and the first hymn.

Okay, I officially hat that library – the internet is so slow! I had my hard drives with me this time so I didn’t lose what I wrote, but I thought after the time ran out, I’d be able to make a new computer reservation, but I was wrong – you can only use it once a day unless it’s like completely empty of people. So I used a little of another missionary’s time and printed my letter out. At least I don’t have to rewrite it this time.

Anyway, today was a pretty good day. I got some cleaning supplies from the store and cleaned our bathroom. The other elders in our apartment have their own bathroom, so just me and Elder Swenson share it. It was so gross though – months of elders never cleaning it – really gross!

It’s interesting to go shopping for groceries, since I never have till my mission. It’s hard to know what to buy – there are so many choices, and only so much money on my card. It’s fun though and I even bought plenty of healthy stuff so don’t worry. It’s kind of dumb though b/c when I arrived it was close to the end of the month so they didn’t give me a lot of money since you get more at the beginning of months, but I had to buy laundry stuff – which was more than I thought it’d be, and stuff to stock up since I was starting from scratch. For example, I bought peanut butter and jam which can last me several weeks before I have to buy more. Anyway the point is that I had to buy last week’s groceries with my own money – from my debit card instead of the monthly money on my new credit card. I also bought a blanket so I don’t freeze at night. Okay, I’ll stop complaining now – it’s not a big deal anyway.

We got a pretty good referral that we visited today. He’d seen a church commercial and called in for a DVD so we took it to him and watched it with him (“The Lamb of God.”) Then talked for a while – it was really good and we set up another appointment with him. His name is Juventino (J is like an H).

We went on splits Saturday for an hour. I went with Elder Funk and we taught this girl, Erica. The spirit was there, and I felt like she definitely might get baptized.

On Sunday Antonio got confirmed in Sacrament meeting. I even got to stand in the circle. Like I said though, I had to play the piano on the spot lol. Good thing I knew how to play the opening hymn! I also got sucked into playing tomorrow at zone conference. Sister Watrous asked me to accompany a musical number, then tonight I got asked to be the pianist for the other hymns as well. It’s kind of crazy, but I guess I better get used to it.

Have a good week everyone!

Love, Elder Curtis

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Snail Mail 1/26/2009

Hey Family! Okay, so here’s the deal. I spent half an hour or more writing a whole page on Word to send to everyone on email. We were at the library, so the thing had a time limit on it. I figured I’d be fine, so I just kept on writing until I had like only a minute or two left. Then I tried to open my email to send the letter, but the internet connection was so slow, and the time just kept ticking, so I tried to save the document, but it’s a public computer so it just shut off on me before I could save or send it. I talked to the library lady, but she said that it was too late, soooo ….. I have to try and remember everything and send it snail mail. Stupid on my part I know. Next time I’ll take my flash drive, just in case. J Frustrating at the time, but now it’s kind of funny.

So my first week here has been great! My companion is Elder Swenson. Transfers were today, and they decided to keep him as my trainer. It’s my first transfer and his last. J He’s really cool. He’s a lot like me, and we get along quite well. He’s easy going, but he cares a lot – so he’s perfect. He has no fear, and he’s so cheerful, so he gets along with anyone he talks to – so knocking doors isn’t as bad as it would be. His Spanish is really good, and he’s really good at teaching, so I’m happy to be with him and know I’ll learn a lot. He’s really funny too, so I get my daily laugh in.

The apartment is nice, but it’s kind of gross, lol. I’ll have to whip it up into shape – well as much as I can do without replacing stuff. J I sleep on a bunk bed, and so I’m on the bottom. When I got here, there was just some old sheets on the bed, so I bought a blanket to keep warm.

We have an ’07 Corolla to drive – it’s a lot nicer than the one I used to drive, lol. The one we had last week got shaky when we went too fast, so we got a new one today, but it’s the exact same car – both a silver color.


The weather is so nice here, and I love how arm climates smell outside – it reminds me of Arizona. I love palm trees. It did rain a couple days this last week though, but E. Swenson said rain is pretty rare, so I can endure the couple days it does rain. J We went running a couple days this past week as well, so that’s nice.

The first night for dinner we ate at this Mexican Taco place, and E. Swenson convinced me to try one with cow tongue. It didn’t look any different from the regular meat tacos – except if you look close you can see the ridges. It didn’t taste bad – it was just a little softer than normal meat. J E. Swenson topped me by trying buche (stomach) and head meat.

We ate at members’ houses most nights, and I’m really enjoying the Mexican food. I even tried part of a Habanero chili last night – one of the world’s hottest foods. The thing was teeny, but I thought my tongue would fall out. E. Swenson had one too. He said he had one his first week, so he wanted me to as well. It wasn’t just hot, it was pain! Like intense pain for at least a half hour. It just doesn’t go away – pretty intense. At least I can say I’ve tried one now.

We visited a lot of people this week, but all of them were just drop-bys, cause all our appointments were no-shows, lol. We knocked some doors too, so it’s been a good first week. I’m in the city of La Habra, and me and E. Swenson are assigned as Spanish missionaries, so we visit a lot of Spanish people and go to the Spanish ward. It’s the most North area, so we are on the north and west border (of the mission).

I got tired after the first hour of church, trying to figure out what they were saying, so I kind of gave up – haha. It’s frustrating at a member’s house during dinner or whatever when I don’t even know what they’re talking about. But I’ll get better eventually. That’s what senior companions are for – they cover for you. J

It’s just embarrassing when someone asks you a question, and you’re like what? So they repeat it just as fast as last time, and you’re like uhh… I thought I could understand pretty good, but they speak fast and a little slurred. So now I want to tell people “no I don’t speak Spanish,” instead of “a little bit” and then having them talk to you expecting you to understand. Then they ask E. Swenson if I can speak/understand, and he’s like “yeah, he speaks pretty well,” and I’m like “thanks a lot, Swens,” lol.

There was an investigator in this area that got baptized yesterday, so that was cool. He and three other Latinos got baptized into the ward – two young and two adults. The service was in Spanish of course, so I didn’t understand much, but it was nice, and I led the music. It was cool to have a baptism my first week, but it was planned before I even got here, so I don’t really count it.

So I’m here for six weeks at least. Anyway, love you all so much. Thanks for your support. Everyone here is really nice – the mission pres and his wife, my comp, and my 3 other roommates (who just got stuck in a threesome today) – so don’t worry about me.

Love,
Elder Curtis

Snail Mail -- January 20, 2009


It is so beautiful here! When I left SLC it was so hazy I couldn’t see the ground from the plane, but here it is blue skies and sunny around 80 degrees, so I am loving it. President, his wife, and two AP’s picked me up, and we are at the mission home.

They are all so nice and I think President is awesome. He’s really obedient and wants to follow rules, so we can only write family on email and can no longer go to Disneyland my last P-day, but I’m not too worried about that.

I’m going to be in a regular companionship with an elder who used to be in a threesome. I’ve heard great things, so I’m excited to meet him. Transfers are next Monday, so I don’t know if I’ll stay with him, but I’ll do what they want me to do.

My flight was great and this place is heaven, so I’m happy to be here. I love you all so much. The Bartons were a great help and got me all situated, so I’m doing fine. Hope Mom and Dad enjoyed their trip!
Love,
Elder Curtis

Home for 5 Weeks

The last couple weeks at the MTC, Shane met with several doctors and had several tests done, and it was determined that he should come home for a time to address some health issues. So on December 16th (the day Shane was to fly to Anaheim), Shane came home and was released from his mission.

Coming home was his last choice. It was a difficult time. He was basically in limbo, without a job, without being in school, without being on a mission.

But there were some positive things that came out of it. Shane was able to be home for Christmas and go with us to Pittsburgh, PA to visit Ross, Anna, and Tereesah. While there, Shane spent two days serving with the missionaries. And Shane performed some baptisms in the Washington, D.C. temple. In Highland, Shane did some temple work for some of our ancestors.

After having sufficient time to get the medical issues addressed, Shane was set apart as a missionary again and flew to Anaheim on January 20th.